on the subject of… hiking

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Andrew and I have been trying to get out and be more active together on weekends. The problem is the past couple weeks at work have been kicking my butt. I love the projects I am working on, but between long office hours and training for a half marathon during the week, I only crave rest on Sundays.

But… Andrew and I promised each other we would go on a Sunday hike. So we headed to the Lighthouse Park in West Vancouver to take in some fresh air.

“I am really glad we are doing this,” Andrew said. I nod my head enthusiastically, trying to hide my exhaustion, preparing myself mentally and physically for this long hike, all the while trying to keep up with my husband’s brisk pace. How am I going to do this? I think to myself. The map of trails made it look like we were headed for an hour long excursion.

All of a sudden we come to a clearing, and we both realize that its the parking lot and there’s our car. We had done the entire “hour long” trail in about twenty minutes.

“Oh bummer, the map made this trail look so much longer!” Andrew said, disappointed.

“Total bummer,” I agree. “Oh well, that was fun. Let’s go home.” I say, smiling to myself. Lucky break, Ashly, lucky break. 

life lately…

this best sums up what i’ve been up to this past march…

maroon 5

seeing maroon 5 in concert…

alicia keys

and then alicia keys in concert…

brides

bachlorette parties…

portland craft

drinking tangerine flavored beer…

skis snowboard

playing in the snow before its all gone…

lions gate bridge

running stanley park…

andrew bday

andrew turning 26…

It’s been a work hard, play hard kind of month, leaving me no time to blog, or write or to really just breathe…(i’ve heard that’s important, you know, to breathe). I am old enough to know better but too young to care.

And this easter weekend I head to Vegas for my bachlorette party! So this little ole blog will go a couple more weeks without any new posts, but i have much planned for ashly & monkey this spring so stay tuned.

Our first NFL game: GO Seahawks!

Last Sunday Andrew and I experienced our first NFL Game and it was unreal! Nothing against the CFL… but the energy inside an NFL game is like a local BC Lions game… times 10! To be fair, there were a lot more fans at Sunday’s game, than any game at BC Place I’ve ever been too. 67,000 people (us included) packed into the CenturyLink Stadium to watch the Seahawks take on the Minnesota Vikings.

As any Vancouverite knows, taking a trip down south to watch a professional sports game can get expensive (the tickets are pricey enough!). Here’s a few tips on how to keep a day trip to cheer on the Seahawks affordable.

1. If you want to look like you’ve been a Seahawks fan your whole life, stop at a Wal-Mart on the way down to buy cheap NFL apparel. A Seahawks hat for $12 at Wal-Mart is just as good as a Seahawks hat for $30 sold inside the stadium.

2. Finding affordable parking is tough! The further away you can park from the stadium the cheaper it gets. So if you don’t mind walking, keep driving! Just make sure you have a GPS so you don’t get lost. After passing $50 lots, $40 lots and then $30 lots, we finally found a $20 lot at Columbia and 1st. Plus it was valet parking! We kind of forgot that at the end of the game and didn’t come back with a tip… oops… can I use the excuse that we were from out of town?

3. Opt to get lunch outside the stadium, rather than waiting to buy food from the vendors inside. There were plenty of hot dog, tacos and burger stalls outside the stadium, so we grabbed 2 hot dogs for $6 and took in the high energy pre-game atmosphere (which was already in full swing about an hour and a half before kick-off). Too bad you can’t drink beer in public in Seattle, or else I am sure the stalls would be selling that for cheap too! We still had to pay for over priced Budweiser inside CenturyLink…

C’mon Washington, you did just legalize marijuana for recreational use… I think its time you legalize the drinking of alcohol in public places :-)  

Over the weekend

Our “Halloween” weekend was tame. My theory is we partied so hard last year for Halloween (3 parties in 3 days!) that this year we were just worn out :)

So instead we spent some time at the Public Market on Granville Island and bought candy corns– I needed them for my carrot cup cakes! We found a bright red umbrella for our engagement photo shoot that happened on Sunday (more to come on that soon!) and I found three small white vases (my new home decor obsession) at a thrift store.

Despite my best efforts, we never did get around to heading to a pumpkin patch to pick out the perfect pumpkin and carve it into a jack-o-latern. So instead we did the next best thing: Enjoyed Pumpkin Ale from the local brewery.

But honestly, who you do you think had more fun? The people carving messy pumpkins? Or us drinking beer while watching the classic movie: Poltergeist…?

Thought so. 

Biking was not in the cards: Our trip to Pender Island

Believe it or not, our first trip to a B&B on Pender Island for our friend’s wedding was meant to be a biking trip.

I would like to believe the bike behind me in the photo below is mine… but sadly… none of our bikes made it on this weekend getaway…

The planning went a little something like this: Andrew and I had the brilliant idea to bike onto the ferry (which we later found out were in fact two ferries) that would take us from Vancouver to Pender Island. You see biking made sense mostly because we missed the opportunity to reserve our car on the ferry (I blame Andrew, Andrew blames me)— but also because Pender Island is only about 4km wide, there are no major roads and there is only one taxi on the entire island. Biking is a popular way to get around the smaller Gulf Islands, like Pender, off the coast of Vancouver so we figures why not?

I pictured Andrew and I in our Subaru outback with a bike rack with two fancy bikes attached, kayaks strapped to the roof of the car and trail mix in the front seat ready for some snacking….

Well, there’s a couple of problems with that vision… one, we don’t own a Subaru, two, we don’t have a bike rack or kayaks, three, there was no trail mix on this trip and four…Andrew has a bike, and I do not.

Back to reality: Andrew had wanted an excuse to buy a new bike for quite some time, so we thought, hey, wouldn’t this be a great opportunity to buy a new bike? and then I could ride his old one.

So Andrew was all set to buy himself a bike a few days before the trip… he even had one picked out. But on Friday a co-worker told him he could get him a pretty great discount, only if he waited until next week to purchase it. The problem was, if Andrew still had his old bike, then we still needed a bike for me to ride on our Saturday morning ferry.

Andrew’s co-worker said, no problem. Your wife is shorter than you right? 

Let me pause right here… this is the part in the story where Andrew should have said no. As in, No, my wife isn’t that much shorter than me and NO she will not fit on that bike made for a 13 year old. 

Instead Andrew answered, sure (give or take 2 to 8 inches).

So Andrew brings home this borrowed bike in our car. As I said before, we have no bike rack so he had to take the front tire off  of the loaner bike just to fit it into the car. I probably should have taken the time to reassemble the bike when he got home and test it out before trusting my dear husband that it would be suitable for the vast kilometers we would bike over the weekend, but I didn’t (my mistake) and so we went to sleep ready to wake up at 6am to catch this very important ferry.

We woke up to downpour… the rain just wouldn’t quit, but we were still determined to bike. In the morning Andrew dissembled the front tire of his bike and squished it into our tiny Nissan Sentra and away we drove to the ferry terminal. We parked in the long-term lot and Andrew began to reassemble the bicycles.

Once he was done, I climbed onto my borrowed bike and realized all too quickly that my knees bent outward when I pedaled, my back was hunched in order for me to hold onto the handle bars and I had the most unimpressed look on my face (I am sure you can imagine)… oh ya… and it’s still raining.

I began to voice my doubts when Andrew reassured me in a timid voice, you don’t look… that…. bad… on the bike. Pouting I began to pedal away (huffing and puffing no doubt) towards the ferry’s ticketing kiosk, when I noticed Andrew wasn’t behind me. I circled back in the parking lot to find him walking his bike. When I asked what happened he said his bike chain broke off and he can’t fix it without tools…. which means he can’t bike onto the ferry. Andrew may have been cursing the world under his breath but all I could say was Hallelujah!

So back into the car the bikes went, after of course dissembling the front tires once again, squishing them back into the tiny backseat of our Nissan and leaving mud on our hands.

I guess the gods were on my side that day… And instead of a biking trip, you could say our weekend on Pender Island turned into a foodie adventure. With gourmet breakfast in the morning prepared by our lovely B&B hosts Maggie and Bill, aka Brown Sugar, at the Oceanside Inn

…to the delicious local and organic cuisine at the Hope Bay Cafe. I would have never described Andrew or I as foodies but after this trip, I feel like we could become some!

Walking on to the ferry, made getting around Pender a little less than ideal but not impossible. Our hosts, Maggie and Bill graciously gave us quite a few rides in their car to different destinations and we walked every where else. Or if we were really desperate there were always car stops, the island’s only form of public transportation:

It was hard to be frustrated when the place was just so beautiful. Our B&B suite had it’s own private hot tub with tree fogs around it, there was a deer that sun bathed in the front lawn of the Inn and the fact that we were away from the hustle and bustle of the big city was really calming and romantic.

Bikes? What bikes? It was a great Canada Long Weekend on Pender Island!

A wedding on Pender Island

Over the Canada long weekend Andrew and I traveled to Pender Island, one of the Gulf Islands off the coast to watch our friends’ Alyssa and Eric tie the knot.

The celebration was outdoors and luckily the rain held off long enough for the couple to say their I do’s. The ceremony was breathtaking… everything from the bride’s grand entrance through a meadow, to the beautiful piece of wood work her dad made for his daughter and new son-in-law to be married under, to the bridal bouquets Alyssa made herself… it was perfect.

Bearing witness to their wedding just made Andrew and I even more excited that we’re still planning on having a large wedding celebration next year, even though we’re already mr. and mrs.

For a while there I thought maybe we should take the money we’re saving for the wedding and put it towards a down payment or some other inevitable life expense… but I’m a firm believer in the motto, “you only live once…” so might as well do what you want. And Andrew and I both want our big day with family and friends.

But this is what really made my heart melt: At the wedding Andrew kept mentioning details about their wedding he loved like the fact that they had a cute glass box to put cards from guests in… he also loved the name cards on the table…. and he loved the photo album on an entrance table of the featuring gorgeous vacation pictures of the groom and bride…

Then he asked if I had thought about any of these details when it came to our future wedding. I just looked at him, speechless… he clearly hasn’t seen my wedding pinterest board.

While months ago I could swear whenever I talked about wedding stuff I just saw his eyes glaze over… but after this weekend’s nuptials all we talked about was our future wedding day… which was really sweet.

Weekend Getaway: Whistler, BC

Andrew surprised me this week with a romantic weekend getaway to Whistler, BC. I had never been before and was so excited to jet out of the city. It took us about 2 hours to drive from Vancouver to Whistler and we stayed at the beautiful Pan Pacific Mountainside Hotel. Whistler has so many things to do, and while we decided we wouldn’t try to pack too much into one weekend, we decided we had to do one of the more famous tourist attractions the village had to offer: the Peak 2 Peak, a breathtaking gondola ride that connects Whistler Mountain to Blackcomb; the two peaks of Whistler’s ski resort.

Although each gondola cart (not sure what it’s called) was meant to carry 2 dozen people, we somehow got the whole thing to ourselves! I asked Andrew if he planned it that way… you know… to max out the romantic factor of our weekend away… he denies it, but I was still very impressed. I think he was pleased with himself too…

At the top we enjoyed some beer, some lunch and took in the amazing view… and maybe threw a few snowballs at each other. It was hilarious to see a tour group from Thailand (we’re guessing) who engaged in a real snowball battle. It’s as if they were seeing snow for the first time… and they probably were! Can you imagine if it was your first time seeing snow? I think it would a rude awakening to learn that snow usually isn’t accompanied by 8 degree plus weather (maybe about 45 Fahrenheit for my American family and friends), and warm sunshine.

If I was a poet, I would go on about how the mountains were majestic, the beauty was overwhelming, and the scenery was out of this world… but all I could say was “wow.” We feel so lucky to live in such a beautiful part of the world.

The whole weekend was amazing. Thank you to my amazing husband for whisking me away.

Go-Karts and Race Cars in Cumberland, BC

This past weekend Andrew and I took a trip to Vancouver Island to visit the in-laws. Andrew had a bachelor party to attend that started in Cumberland, BC. While Andrew was drinking beers with his buddies, and then went to go shoot things in the woods (this is what small town bachelor parties are like I guess…) my in-laws and I took in the sights and sounds.

We dropped him off at the local tavern (no joke, it was called a tavern) and then realized to our surprise that Cumberland was having it’s Village Market Day. There were food and craft vendors, music and best home-made race cars and go-karts. They were amazing!!!

Below was my favorite: Rosie the Riveter.

Cumberland, BC reminded me of when I used to live in Manchester, Michigan when I was in middle school. There is something about small town charm and hospitality that you just can’t find in a big city.

Last but not least… Rosie crossing the finish line!

Over the weekend

The weekend was relaxing. And Andrew and I needed it. We both worked a couple 12 hour days this past week and were feeling the strain. For the first time in weeks I had both Saturday and Sunday off. Ah, I could get used to this.

Saturday night we laid low, watched The Godfather Part 2 (We’re on a big mob/mafia movie phase right now) and made turkey tacos.

 I love turkey tacos. They’re simple. Just substitute ground beef for ground turkey. It’s a lighter meal, they’re better for you and in my mind I think they even taste better.

Andrew and I have taco night at least once a week but this was the first time I made my very own guacamole at home and didn’t buy it pre-made from Whole Foods. Move over Martha Stewart… Ashly Kissman is getting comfortable with the cutting board.

Sunday we woke up early and headed down to Seattle for a day trip. I was able to get some Mariner’s tickets through work so we went on a mini road trip south to my homeland. We stopped at an outlet mall on the way down to Safeco Field too. Andrew bought a couple of items and I bought nothing! Nothing! Are you shocked? I was. Maybe married life has made me more conservative with my money… probably not. But I’ll take the day as a victory anyway.

Good thing the Mariners also claimed victory over the Oakland A’s (you know the team featured in the movie Moneyball). Speaking of movies we made our own little video of today’s day trip. Complete with garlic fries (tasted great but regrettable afterwards for reasons I am sure you can imagine–we were burping garlic all last night), Cracker Jacks, beer and sunshine.

Mariner’s Game Opening Weekend 2012 from Ashly Kissman on Vimeo.

Song in video is “Burning Photographs” by Chad VanGalen

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